Archive for January, 2008

He’s Got to Be Tech-Savvy

Saturday, January 26th, 2008

I don’t care what else my hero can do at the moment. But since I’ve spent the day battling with trying to access my website and make some changes and put up a new book cover — none of which I’ve been able to accomplish — the real hero in my life at the moment has got to know how to deal with this stuff!

I am usually pretty patient with tech stuff. But I am currently losing my mind . And having Seb looking at me like, “Well, I do CAD stuff, I’m not expected to be able to play games with your website as well,” is frustrating.

Especially when he says, “Now, if you’d like me to design you a nice clean office building . . . “

NO!

I don’t need an office building. I need an update on my webpage!

Argh.

The Hero’s Journey

Friday, January 25th, 2008

Back on Wednesday we had a lot of comments from some great writers and avid readers about what makes a hero.

You are very welcome to go read them, because they articulate better than I can sum up the gist of what makes a great hero (in our estimation).

Seb took notes.

Then he came into my office and stood there staring down at me after they were gone. The silence went on for ages. I figured it was up to him to break it.

Finally he said to me, “So . . .” thirty second pause at least ” . . . you’re saying you want me to change.”

It wasn’t a question. But he didn’t look convinced, either. He was tapping the edge of his design sketch book against the palm of his hand. His jaw was tight.

“Well,” I said slowly, trying not to be confrontational just yet, “I think you’ll want to change by the end of the book.”

“Why?”

He didn’t mind being confrontational. I could see that.

“Because things aren’t exactly the way you think they are.”

“Says who?”

“Well, I do. And I have information you don’t.”

“And you’re not going to tell me.” That wasn’t a question, either. He knows me pretty well.

“It wouldn’t be fair if I did,” I explained. “Having a hero is like having a teenager — you can’t tell them anything. They have to go through a learning process. Go on a journey if you will. Start out one place and end up somewhere else. And they have to figure things out for themselves.”

“A teenager? You’re saying I’m not grown up.”

“I’m saying you’re just a little bit blind to certain things. And, um, maybe a little opinionated.”

“It’s not an opinion when you’re right.”

“Which is why we need to get you through chapter one. So you won’t be quite so cocksure of yourself.”

A dark brow lifted. “Nothing wrong with self-confidence.”

“Nothing at all,” I agreed. “And it’s because you have it in abundance that I know you’ll weather this and come out the other side a better man.”

He narrowed his gaze at me and gave me the cool appraisal that got him the nickname “Iceman.”
“Nothing wrong with me the way I am.”

“Indeed not,” I said. “You’re almost perfect.”

“Almost?” Now he was offended.

“You only need the love of a good woman.”

He crossed his arms over his chest. “Not going to happen.”

I just smiled. “That’s what you think.”

“What are you up to?” He glowered at me.

I shrugged. “Show up for work tomorrow and find out.”

More steely-eyed gaze. Just a hint of grinding teeth. A little stubborn edge to his jaw. “We’ see,” he said. Then he turned on his heel and walked out.

What do you guys think? Will he be back? Does Seb have it in him? (God, I hope so! I don’t know what I’m going to write if he doesn’t. But for heaven’s sake, don’t tell him that!)

If you’re a writer, what about the guy you’re writing about now? Does he ever make you wonder if he’s got it in him? Is he so hard-edged you wonder if he’ll find the gentleness he needs? Or is he so mellow you wonder if he’ll even bother? Do you audition your heroes or do they just show up and take over?

And if you’re a reader, who are some of your favorite heroes? In books? In plays? In films? In real life?

If you’re into family history, what about all those dead ancestors? Any heroes among them? Favorite characters?

Hey, ideas are everywhere.

A Gentleman and A Cat

Wednesday, January 23rd, 2008


It is fitting within our discussion of heroes — which was really good (take a look at the comments section on the post below) — to mention a cat of note who passed away on Tuesday.

Ivan “Spiffy” Walker, one of the luckiest cats in the world because he lived at Kate’s (which is basically as close as you can get to feline nirvana) crossed the Rainbow Bridge that day.

Kate paid tribute to him at length on her blog, as well she might since he enriched their family life for 16 years.

But I want to say a few things here to commemorate him because he was just a terrific cat. Kate said he wasn’t the alpha cat — and in the strictest sense of the word — that’s true. But he didn’t need to be. He didn’t need power or arrogance or to make things happen.

Things happened just because Spiffy expected they would.

He was a dapper cat, a charming cat, a self-deprecating cat with a sense of humor.

He was, if you will, the Cary Grant of cats.

He didn’t throw his weight around. He didn’t have to. He could accomplish as much with unassuming grace and a soft touch as the biggest blusterer in the world.

He reminded me of my father-in-law. Now there was a prince among men.

And Spiff was a prince among cats.

He didn’t demand, he waited. He knew you would do The Right Thing if only he gave you time. You knew where the cat food was. You’d get to it. He understood. He was tolerant, patient, dependable. He was the epitome of a low maintenance cat.

You can never have too many low maintenance cats.

You can never have too many Spiffys.

The Prof and I were privileged to know him, to be thudded upon by him when he decided to allow us to pet him. He could have purred for England. I can still hear the rumble he made.

There will always be a hole where Spiff was. No one, not even the wondrous Sid or the flirty Flora or the gangster Dylan will be able to fill it.

God speed, Spiff. You will be deeply missed.