Archive for October, 2009

One More Birthday Boy

Saturday, October 24th, 2009

This is indeed the birthday week at our house — finishing off today with our oldest grandson, Eric, who is seventeen.

I don’t know how Eric could be old enough to drive cars and have a girlfriend and play hoops and score touchdowns, not to mention sing in his high school choir.

It seems like just the other day he was playing “western town” with the Fisher-Price guys.

Wasn’t it last week we were reading alternate chapters of Seaman: the Dog Who Went With Lewis and Clark?

And it couldn’t have been more than last summer that he was taking our dear dogs Jake and Cookie on walks.

How could he have three younger brothers — one of them 11 and two of them 5?

Not possible!

It couldn’t have been ten years ago that he and The Prof and I and Gunnar drove to Montana — with Eric navigating. That boy could read maps before he could talk.

It was a memorable trip. He got to throw buffalo cake to the buffalo on our friends’ ranch. He got to climb up to the falls near Bozeman and throw rocks over the edge. He got to learn about dinosaur digs at the Museum of the Rockies. And every day he wrote about it in a journal so his mom and dad would have a record of what he did (and because one of his grandmas is a writer and the other is a librarian and we both believed that he should write something, too).

He did.

He and I made it into a book, complete with pictures, when we got home. Just the other day I found our copy of his book, Eric’s Excellent Adventure when I was cleaning out the back bedroom — the bedroom which has been through lots of kids, including his own father, but which as often as not is called Eric’s room.

Because he was the first — and for 5 years an only — we did a lot of stuff together. He was my right-hand man when we went down to Kansas to help his aunt and uncle get ready to move to Texas.

He was the only one, at times, who could get his two year old cousin to be reasonable. He has that ability — to be cool and calm and sensible when everyone else is not.

His mom says he’s a lot like his grandma. She means his other grandma — trust me.

She’s right, too. His other grandma is a terrific person. So is he.

Last year we got to watch him play baseball on the same team with his dad one night. This year we got to watch him play football on national TV. This season, for the first time, he and I get to cheer for the same pro football team — his team, the Vikings — because my quarterback is his quarterback now.

It’s fun. He’s fun. It’s true what they say: grandchildren are great.

Especially this one.

He has brought tremendous joy into our lives. And he set the bar very high for all the subsequent grandchildren. They have a lot to live up to after Eric.

Happy birthday, E!

The Birthday Mom — and Boys!

Thursday, October 22nd, 2009


This is birthday week at our house.

My mom celebrated her 90th on Tuesday — but wouldn’t let me take my camera to her party. So I can’t show you the event here. She said, enough! And she meant it. So here’s one from when she wasn’t 90.

There are other birthdays, too.

My favorite son-in-law’s birthday is today. And he’s camera-phobic, too. So I can’t show you him celebrating, either. He’s also my only son-in-law, which he continually reminds me. But that doesn’t make him any less a favorite. Once he saved my daughter’s life. How can I not love the man?

And then there are the twins.

Cooper and Carson are five today. They have a camera at their house, but I’m not there. I just talked to them on the phone and their mom says go ahead and put up summer pics — they haven’t changed all that much.

Well, no.

I can’t tell them apart half the time now and I couldn’t tell them apart half the time then. But I love them dearly even when I don’t know which one I’m talking to.

They looked a lot different five years ago. They weren’t supposed to arrive in October. They weren’t due until two days after Christmas. We had a rough few weeks.

But as you can see, they’ve turned out fine. The wonders of modern medicine have done a great job. They are hale and hearty and make life interesting.

Happy birthday, boys! Love you!

Tote Bagging On Thursday

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009


I’ll be talking about ‘going home again’ and all the bits and pieces that go into writing a book when my blog piece turns up at Tote Bags ‘n’ Blogs on Thursday. So check for it over there, please. Say hi. Be friendly!

I’m up to my neck in George, but I’m happy to report that Gunnar my dearly departed flatcoat retriever has come to my rescue. He told me this morning that George needed a dog. Boy, was he right.

And so, George got a dog. A dog named Gunnar. A flatcoat.

Imagine that.

And alll of a sudden it’s so much more fun to write because I get to spend time with Gunnar every day. And Gunnar is making George come alive. Well, he’s not yet because George is still in the hospital having had his near encounter with the truck.

But the fact that Gunnar is at George’s house means that George has a very definite human side to him that wasn’t quite so evident in the physics lab.

And his presence is requiring certain responses from Sophy. And she’s seeing a whole side of George she’s never quite believed in.

It’s lovely.

And I owe it all to Gunnar. Somehow I’m not surprised.

If you haven’t met Gunnar, but you want a retrospective, please go back to December 2008 on my blog and scrowl down to December 8th.

He’s worth the trip.

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I see by Amazon that One-Night Mistress . . . Convenient Wife is being shipped. And a friend in England tells me it’s available there. And Kate Walker says it’s out at eharlequin.

You can read a bit more about the background of it on Tote Bags Thursday. So, check it out!