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A Middle-of-the-Heart Cat

Saturday, September 24th, 2011

We love our pets.  They make our lives richer, better, more complicated at times (try finding a dog-sitter for Thanksgiving weekend at the last minute), and one of the worst things on earth is when we lose them.

It’s awful when it happens, when we lose one of our own. It’s not supposed to happen with other peoples’ pets.

SID306 002But it happened this past week to me when Sid died.

Most of you know Sid. He was the light of my dear friend Kate Walker’s life. He waltzed into her house one day and simply took over.  There was life Before Sid, and Life During Sid was totally different.

He was the cat who made sitting and writing for hours in an office worthwhile – because, quite simply, he was there.

He could be snoozing on the chair or lying in the window or studying the effects of batting the mouse. It didn’t matter.  He was endlessly entertaining – even when he slept. 

I ask myself why. I asked Kate why. 

sidinabasketOf all her cats, he was the most memorable.  Of the four who were there when I first visited, Sid was the one who interacted with us.  The others were lovely (well, Dylan, not so much. He was cantankerous and gruff, but he did have his soft spot).

Sid had a whole flabsack of soft spots. He tried to pretend he wasn’t interested in people, but he could never quite pull it off. He was too busy being in the center of things.

I read a book once that said that Maine Coon cats were “middle of the room” cats.  If so, Sid was a Maine Coon cat in disguise.  More than an Maine Coon cat actually because he wasn’t so much a middle of the room cat, as a “middle of the heart” cat. 

You couldn’t help but fall in love with Sid.

SID306 004I probably had half a dozen visits with Sid in my life. Each one was special.  I frequently offered him hospitality on this side of the pond. I told him that the d.o.g.s. would be happy to see him.  And they would.

But he’d done his wandering as a youth, and when he got to Kate’s, he made up his mind that that was where home was, and he wasn’t about to stray.  So he never visited in person (in cat).  But he frequently dropped into my email in-box.

He had a way with words, did Sid. He had Opinions and Views, and he didn’t hesitate to articulate them. He also had Standards – and he worked hard to bring Flora and Chaz (that’s Charlie) up to the mark.  He never bothered to try with Dylan.  Even Sid had his limits, and there are just some cats you know you can’t shape up.

I will miss his correspondence. There will be no more letters from Sir Sidney St John Willoughby Eamonn Portly-Lummox, DLitt Oxon, Bart., Earl of Blubberhouses and I forget what else (HE never forgot).

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I will miss the new and wonderful photos that Kate would send when he was feeling photogenic. One year he sent me a calendar called A Year Of Sid – with a photo of Himself for each month. I still have it.  I cherish it.

I also have a t-shirt with his picture on it (Can you tell that Sid didn’t need a marketing department. He had self-promotion down pat – not that he needed it. He got plenty of ear rubs and head scratches just by being himself). I have been wearing Sid’s t-shirt a lot these last few weeks because it made me feel closer to him. 

He was, he used to tell me, A Cat of Superior Breeding. He even had an email address that was, in part, SidACOSB, cat print heartbecause, well, why wouldn’t he?

But the truth is, he wasn’t A Cat of Superior Breeding. He was THE Cat.  The one and only.

He’s left a Sid shaped hole in all parts of Kate’s life. 

He’s left a Sid-shaped hole in my heart. 

A Very Fine Cat, Indeed

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

When our cat Goliath was close approaching his second millenium, I was given a wall plaque with a quote that said something to the effect that, “Here Lives a very fine cat, indeed.”

It was, as Goliath could attest, and often did, very true. When Goliath moved on to greener pastures and doubtless better vittles, not to mention dogs who properly understood his Authority and that they were subject to it, it still took me a while to take down the plaque.  It’s in the drawer with my checkbook, and I saw it this morning.  It reminded me of another Very Fine Cat, Indeed.

He was called Bart.

He was my friend Nancy The Cat-Slayer’s cat (or she was his human), and I have known Bart since he could sit in the palm of my hand.

Those who came to know him in his days of greater ponderance (is that a word? The spell-checker says not) find that hard to believe. Bart was generally beyond a handful. But, ah, when he was small . . .

He came to live with Nancy surreptitiously, brought home by her son and a friend.  They sort of smuggled him in because he was, well, tiny — and in need of a home.

And then they skulked around muttering things like, “Shall we tell her?” until Nancy finally asked, “Tell her what?”

That Bart had come to live with them.

She could have protested, of course.  But Nancy is a woman of great wisdom, and she knew the value of a Great Cat when she saw one — even one who was a mere handful at the time.

He was tiny and white with just a few black and gray dots and a tail that obviously belonged to some other cat — a gray and white striped one. But one one told Bart, so he thought it was his.

He was a lovely cat. He was a long-suffering cat.

He learned how to play chess and how to play several different card games. He read the sports page (he was a Steelers fan), and he did crossword puzzles.

He was endlessly patient with people who put silly hats on his head, and he dealt with dogs as well as he did with people. He coped with Annie the dog and Arrow the dog — and a couple of huge giant visiting dogs — and he never batted an eyelash. Well, he did — but only to let them know who was boss.

He even mustered the energy to put new Mr Mac (aka Mac-a-loon) in his place when he came home to be Nancy’s newest buddy this winter.

Over the years Bart and I spent many days together while Nancy was on vacation. I would go over and feed him and talk to him and brush him every day, and he was alwa ys at the door to meet me. Sometimes, in fact, he was leaning against the door, so tired he was of waiting for me. And he always gave me an indignant squawk when I came is, as if to say, “Well, it’s about time . . .”

As far as he was concerned, it was always about time — and never soon enough to get his dish filled.

So it was disturbing last week when he didn’t really seem to want to eat that much.  He was still at the door — Bart never gave up his post for anything. And he still walked me back to the kitchen, checking to see every few steps if I remembered the way. And he still purred mightily when I brushed him. He had the Most Amazing Purr.  But he didn’t much want to eat. He couldn’t be bothered with anything other than Greenies. (Yes, Sid, he, too, loved Greenies).

This morning he didn’t want Greenies.   He was ready for better things, better places, and — eventually —  Greenies galore. On demand.

I had the privilege of being there with him when he went.  I saw him smile. And I understood later, when my cousin called this afternoon, exactly what that smile was all about.

With his exquisite timing, Bart had managed to cross the rainbow bridge on my Uncle George’s 100th birthday.  There is undoubtedly a huge party going on in Uncle George’s part of heaven right now — and every cat will be invited.

After all, Uncle George’s last words to my aunt were, “Don’t forget to feed the cats.”

He and Bart will get along just fine.

It’s just the rest of us who will be missing him.

Blogging at Tote Bags

Wednesday, September 15th, 2010

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I’m blogging at Tote Bags ‘n’ Blogs on Thursday – looking for a character for my current book. So if you have any four-footed characters you want to share – or suggest – please stop by and give me some of your ideas.

Kate Walker’s Sid has already offered, but I think the part isn’t quite right for him.  He needs a bigger role.

His own book, he says. Well, yes.

But that’s not what this is. 

And Mitch is too bouncy, and Micah isn’t right for the role either.  I have some ideas, but maybe you have a better one.

Let me know!